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On the stage of personality formation and puberty of my daughter

After five years of primary school, Nguyet Ha - Our daughter is 12 years old. As a mother, I always close and Ha have observed many physiological changes: My daughter grow up both height and weight, look into a young woman, more gloomy mood, talking to people at large, do not want to go to a friends with their parents initially worried about learning as the way to secondary school is any good or not good, was initially informed relationship systems in society. There are changes in my daughter's body in the psycho-physiological manifestations and the feelings of my mother began to realize that this period of personality formation and step on the stage of puberty for first daughter our.
Thien Mu Pagoda Hue's Citadel
To help my daughter confidence, reduce fear anxiety, limited external impact affecting the health and education, we also agreed views of the management, conduct and after-care activities My daughter's so I feel Ha parents began to see myself as an adult but do not let loose in the living and traveling in society because this phase occasionally Ha also stubborn, and sometimes he does not listen parents, want their independence, have spent at war with my sister, although his way of 90-10 years, a sign of inferiority ... between children and adults, giving parents sometimes uncomfortable , frustrating, and sometimes parents false security jobs bewildered daughter proved not to show agility ... All these phenomena and events on more or less altered patterns of living and more or less published in the mood happy mother sometimes mixed. Therefore, the calm and behavior that are consistent with circumstances and the physiological age of the child. To do and handle the problems then I had to spend time reading educational books, young women during puberty, medical books, fitness training ...
Nguyet Ha at Gold mountain upper Ba Na Hill
Since then close to understanding the physiological changes reasons, including the most secret to Ha assured confidence. We also have to adjust to teaching management, trust in the development and growth of my daughter does not impose, towards self-awareness and emotional learning, communication, relations and friends respect for grandparents and parents. At an early age, my daughter had separate rooms and equipment are also changes over time of age. As elementary school parents can adjust the placement of study, bed, wardrobe, piano, but when my daughter had grown to respect prompted to match the circumstances and cultural perspective family.
We wacth goldfish ponds in the Hue Citadel
With the motto "long rains will be absorbed slowly" a combination of practical experience of our life, and knowledge of education policy and management adjustment methods taught my daughter in this period have gradually reached things I hope and expect, to Ha understanding, empathy with parents, caring to learn, improve health and have the older definition of family life.
Ha at Gate in the Hue Citadel
To help my daughter develop and enhance understanding of cultural and historic sites of Vietnam, so in the summer at the agency as the home for you tour tourism such as the Ho Chi Minh independent evaluation, Vung Tau, Danang, Nha Trang and Mui Ne, visit Uncle Ho's homeland, the poet Nguyen Du, 10 women visit the grave of her fallen heroes at the cemetery Dong Loc-Can Loc, Ha Tinh at provin, visit Truong Son road, visit Hue Citadel and Ha Long Bay - World's cultural heritage of Viet Nam, Lao Cai province, Ha Giang, Tra Co where the ends of the national historical and cultural capital of Hanoi. These trips are so useful contribution for my daughter to raise awareness in subjects such as history, geography, improving cultural understanding. Thereby, Ha as love of home, love the country and see the love and attention of the agency and the family especially the parents were devoted to children.
Ha with I at Vietnam's first point at the north pole in Tra Co Quang Ninh
As the mother had undergone function as wife and manager in the family homemaker. So I remain focused for my daughter to know the women in the district such as embroidery, cooking set, do the dishes and then go shopping, washing dishes. Although my house maids but not to age dependent and must know all that. But I still have to keep learning mode, complete and rigorous, including music and painting, taught galaxy teachers know how to behave when guests to the ceremony even as a parent at home or away etc ...
Ha with I at Vietnam's first point at the north pole in Tra Co, Quang Ninh
It can be said, so far my daughter has to do what we ask. Although not fluent, but my daughter already understand and do, have family responsibilities, caring to everyone in the family. In particular, my daughter is very emotional, did make concessions and girls love wild childhood. We are happy and believe in growth and development of my daughter. By Nguyet Anh

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